Stop Cussing!

I used to cuss when I was younger.  The environment I was in that included the military and the music world seemed to encourage it.  You weren't cool if you didn't cuss at least a little.

I think also that cussing was a reflection of my straying away from the church in which I grew up.  I was encouraged, often against my will to go to church every Sunday.  I was rebellious in many ways, but for much of my youth, I was not openly disrespectful of my parents.  I knew that cussing was against the teachings of God but part of my rebellion was doing things I was taught not to do.

As I grew older I began to realize that I didn't like some of the things I was doing with my life.  I knew that some of those things I had control over if only I chose to eliminate them.  Two of those things were smoking and cussing.  I made a conscious effort to stop both.  Quitting smoking was very hard but I eventually did it.  Cussing was much easier to stop and I did it right away.

Cussing is so boring to listen to.  In my way of thinking it is a stupid, mindless way of adding a stench to normal communication.  I have read that it is supposed to be an emotional release of some kind.  I think that is just plain idiotic.  I have emotions that need release and I can find acceptable words that work quite well.  The reality for me is that swearing is a lot like smoking.  When you see people who smoke, you usually see them with someone else who smokes.  It's almost like choosing friends because they have the same bad habits you do. It is a way of fitting in with the people you have chosen to associate with.  Associate with people who don't swear and the problem is solved. I, for one, am not impressed with people who cuss.  You can stop.  It is easy.  Just stop it!